What is a Thoroughbred? I get ask this question often times.
I laugh because so many of my friends that call me this really don't even know
the true definition of the name. They think it’s merely an Instagram or Twitter
name I have given myself to satisfy my oh so confident attitude. Well,
surprisingly it’s more to the name then that. Thoroughbred was a name
given to me when I pledged Delta Sigma Theta, Inc. in April 2006. I was
that girl on the line with the New York attitude who felt I couldn't be broken.
Being reared in Queens New York, I've always had a rough demeanor. A boldness
about myself that I could never quite explain. Confident needless to say to the
100th power. No matter how challenging things were, I seemed to always
push my way through it. Mostly through laughter (I was the person on line who
thought everything was funny). See my brother Nasim had prepared me for
Greek life; and the challenges that I would probably face while being on line.
His words were, "It’s all mental Toya, never take it personal."
"If you are able to get through this, you will be able to overcome
anything in life." That always stuck with me throughout the entire process
and even now in my daily living. After crossing those burning sands, my
name was announced along with my other ten lovely line sisters, and I was
astounded. I felt like the name fit me perfectly.
Thoroughbred describes the specific breed of horses since
the 17th century. Thoroughbreds are horses known for their speed, agility, and
spirit (Wikipedia). A distinct breed, generally considered spirited and
bold. After looking up the meaning of the word, it made even more sense
as to why the name was given to me. If I put my mind to doing something it has
to get done immediately. I've never had problems meeting new people and
building lasting relationships so I guess it’s safe to say I have a very
positive and energetic spirit. So here we are! I figured why not share
this name with the world. The name "SheThoro" was derived from the
word Thoroughbred. Taking the meaning of the word and making it specific for BOLD
and SPIRITED women. Women who walk in style and grace no matter how hard life
gets. Women who are able to turn adversity into success. Woman who are mothers,
entrepreneurs and leaders. That's what this word represents. It's more
than just a name. Anyone can have a name. It’s a movement. It’s a
lifestyle. It takes actions to be considered Thoro. Like I always say,
"By her moves, you will know, SheThoro."
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I love it my friend. I am so proud of you. This name fits you like a glove, I will support you in any & everything you do. You are so inspiring. Definitely SHETHORO
ReplyDeleteAwwww Daphne... Means so much.. Thanks and I appreciate you.
DeleteI love it sis!!!!! You better strut your stuff girl! Love you!
ReplyDeleteThanks sis..... Means so much.. Love you
ReplyDeleteLove love this! You are a beauftul person and have a beauftul spirit and I've always thought the name fit you perfectly.
ReplyDeleteNow that's my girl! You wear "confidence" well. Each day God gives up the opportunity to inspire and cultivate others.
ReplyDeleteThanks Rosie. You were one of my greatest mentors. I truly miss AT&T days.
DeleteGo Toya! I admire your confidence and you are such an inspiration for me and black women everywhere 💯👍
ReplyDeletePam I really appreciate your kind words. Means so much and thank you for taking time out to read my blog.
DeleteA name of confidence, assertiveness, and strength. It's a beautiful thing when you are sure of yourself and possess those qualities! Go head girl!!
ReplyDeleteYou are so right Kia.... Thanks for reading. Means so much
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