LOVE IS BLIND

What is the real meaning of LOVE?  There are so many definitions that describe this four letter word.  LOVE, is a word that we seek, we cherish, we share, and we fall into.  It's an intense emotion that is a part of us whether we choose to act on it or not.  Moreover, love is a choice to be at your very best and look past the flaw of others, even when they're not at their very best.  So, is LOVE really blind?

As we continue our countdown to Valentine's Day, understanding the word LOVE is truly important. Although it sounds cliche', LOVE is blind. Often times we allow our wants to supersede that of others, focusing only on ourselves. Is that why some are single, while others are in healthy relationships or married?  Is there really an answer to a word that has so many definitions and means something different to each individual?  However you look at it, LOVE obviously runs deeper than just one day and should be celebrated everyday. While we all have our "blind" moments when dealing with LOVE, are we truly searching within ourselves to explore something so deep; or merely basking in a desired dream.

While LOVE taste different to all of us, whatever it means to you, I challenge you to continuously explore it.  We often try to conceal the pain and hurt that this word has brought us in the past, but just deal with it.  If you truly LOVE someone, your wants sometimes is not important.  Live without fear and embrace those "blind" moments and allow it to grow you. Accept love on "blind" faith and allow it to show you.  Besides, the best LOVE often comes from the ones we do not see. 

Just My Thoughts...

Dress: Giti

Photography By: Rhayna C Photography

Make-up By: Ari

Hair By: LYLAS HAIR

RED(Y) OR NOT

I can't begin to tell you how excited I am about Valentine's Day this year.  Not because of the flowers or going out on a date, but because I have an opportunity to celebrate LOVE. What greater feeling is it to be able to love and be loved.  So, REDy or not here it comes!

To prepare for the day of love, RED continues to be the color of choice.  This year I've even painted my nails and feet red, and of course have my classic red dresses.  If you've been following my countdown to Valentine's Day, you know that we are currently on day 3.  We are literally 4 days away from one of the most anticipated days of the year.  I scored this super affordable zipper dress from Fashion to Figure for like $15 bucks.  I love how it accentuate my curves and the gold zipper accents the dress perfectly. I love how the rouche detail camouflage my mid section.  When it come to dresses, I'm always looking for something stylish, but comfortable. 

Love is in the air, and I hope you guys are REDy.  I hope you have started looking for that perfect outfit to celebrate in. Remember, the color red always turn heads as long as it is worn correctly.  If you need more tips, continue my countdown to V-Day.  In the words of Lauren Hill, "You can run away; from these styles I got, oh baby."

DIPPED IN RED

Just like a strawberry, who doesn’t LOVE anything dipped.  Whether at work or on a date, it is important to have the perfect transitional piece.  Red will always be a classic color; so what better way to keep the traditional theme going for Valentine's Day than in a sultry red pencil dress.

Since Valentine's Day is on a weekday this year, finding the perfect dress is essential.  Most of us will be working on that day, so I wanted a dress that could be worn from the office straight on a date with that special someone. The pencil dress always gives a professional feel. You can tone it down at the office by pairing it with a cute sweater or blazer. When you're ready to hit the city with your valentine, just take the jacket off and throw on a bold necklace and you're ready to go! Fashion To Figure is always my first stop because they tend to carry pieces that are multi-functional; which I love.  This look is perfect for someone who is going for more of a sophisticated and sexy look on Valentine’s Day.  So, what are you wearing?

As they say, "When in doubt, wear red." There are so many ways you can dress it up or down for the day of LOVE; depending on what your plans are.  As we continue our countdown in celebration of LOVE, remember to feel sexy in whatever you decide to wear.  In the words of Sophia Loren, “A woman’s dress should be like a barbed wire fence; serving its purpose without obstructing the view.”

Dress: Fashion To Figure

Photography By: Rhayna C Photography

Make-up By: Ari

Hair By: LYLAS HAIR

I Love You

I decided to take a different approach to Valentine’s Day this year and dress it up!  Sometimes we down play “man made” holidays, but I think it’s always fun and exciting to have a reason to get dressed up and go out.  Each year, Valentine's Day is always that holiday that becomes stressful to some.  If you’re married or in a relationship, you may be wondering if your man would coincidentally act up right before this day to avoid getting a gift.  If you're single, your stressing or wondering if you would have a date for the night or if someone will at least think enough of you to surprise you with some chocolates and roses.  Trust me, I've been there and I am here to say; don't do it to yourself this year.

LOVE has always been that sensitive word or should I say feeling. It's something that we yearn for and desire as humans.  Valentine's Day seem to add even more pressure to the word for some ironic reason.  Are we really that vulnerable?  This year, I decided to do something that has carried over from previous years.  Loving me more and more each day has become a priority! While I appreciate these "man made" holidays, Valentine's Day is one that I decided to have a little fun with. Instead of focusing on a date or who would buy me some supermarket roses (just to say I have a Valentine), I decided to get sexy for the only person who could love me unconditionally; ME.  As vain or egotistical as that may sound, self-love is truly the best love.  Relationships have become way too stressful, and well finding love isn't always as easy as it may seem.  For me, I'm loved daily by family, friends, and even my followers and I count my blessings for that.  I decided to be unselfish and instead of worrying about what I could get on Valentine's Day, I wanted to continue to be thankful for the love that I already receive.  

So, for the next 7 days, let us celebrate L O V E.  Not the kind that is displayed just on one day, but the kind of love that is shown daily; on a consistent basis.  Let us cherish those who love us, instead of focusing on what someone does for you on one day. Besides, the chance to love and be loved exists no matter where you are.  Some people search their whole lives to find what you already have around you or in you.  I mean, being someone's love may be great, but being your own is beyond perfect.  

P.S. I  L O V E  Y O U.......

Dress: Giti

Photography By: Rhayna C Photography

Make-up By: Ari

Hair By: LYLAS HAIR